On social media Images and warnings were shared that Put the screen on when the child is fussy. Can it really work?
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Making a baby stop crying by handing a screen to the baby to divert attention from the frustrated mood It's a short-term solution. But in the long run it can't be solved. Moreover, it may result in the child not being able to control his emotions.
Nowadays, when you see a child crying, dissatisfied. Many parents will hand over screen media. There is a part handed over and opened immediately, the child stopped crying. That is, we are diverting our attention from the child's frustrations to the screen. Make parents see that screen media has advantages. therefore being used more and more
?? Submitting the screen results only on the face. But in the long term, children cannot control themselves.
Handing a screen to a child works in the short term. But it's an incubation that makes children unable to control themselves for a long time.
Nowadays, research studies have begun to find that if parents use screen media to calm their children. It turns out that the child has a higher chance of not being able to control his emotions.
Based on this information, it can be concluded that the use of screen media to calm children may deprive them of the opportunity to learn how to calm themselves.
?? How to do it. Parents don't have to hand the screen to the child.
If there is no screen, parents have to deviate their dissatisfaction, for example, by bringing their children to count from 1 to 10, or the common point is that they can use methods to reflect their emotions, especially if their children understand emotional vocabulary more. You might be able to say yes! the child is angry these talks Didn't speak, then the child would calm down immediately. But after speaking, the child will know how the parents feel. We are about to teach our new children that when they are in a bad mood. We don't talk harshly to each other, but wait for a calmer mood to talk.
Some houses try to teach their children. Find other activities for the child, such as when angry to make plasticine. make art artifacts Dip your hands in the color of your anger. If angry, what color do you use? This allows children to learn self-regulation in a way that is more effective than using screen media.
?? If a child "crying, wailing" what should be done?
1. Parents must first control their emotions. Many times, parents who are able to control their temper can handle situations better.
2. Try to reflect emotions. Guess the mood of the child at that time, for example, I was angry because I didn't eat this.
3. When the child is in a bad mood Don't try to explain too much. Because the emotional brain is superior to the rational brain. Parents have to wait for their emotions to calm down and their rational brain become more active.
4. It is necessary to wait for the child to calm down. If a small child is distracted, it can help reduce feelings of frustration and discomfort.
5. May have to practice with children often that if they are not satisfied, frustrated, upset, what can parents do?
6. Parents need to analyze those behaviors. Because every behavior that occurs, such as yelling, rampaging, usually has a predecessor.
Therefore, it must be protected immediately. Parents must discuss and agree that today they will go to the department store. to do this didn't visit there It is foretelling, it is teaching, preparing before those events occur.
?? How to submit a screen is an easy way. Do it and see results immediately.
There is something that I would like to invite parents to rethink since using this method. Is it really better to control your child's emotions?
Naturally, as you grow up, you need to be able to control your emotions well. But if today the child has a worse control over his temper Must revisit whether the use of screen media to calm children or control their emotions. Maybe this isn't the only answer. Or is that the best way?
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